Welcome in my practice for eros exploration for Gay, Bi en Open Minded men

I guide and support men during their exploration of sexuality from a body-mind connection to their authentic self (Core). Eros exploration encompasses your sexual needs, desires and passions as well as your deeper values, respectful sexuality and perception of identity. Eros bridges the gap between the erotic, the loving and the universal love, it is about connection with yourself, the relational and the existential-spiritual dimension.

Offer

Eros Touch & Massage

For men who love massage, touch, stimulation, sensuality, sexual exploration, security and empowerment in respectful contact with a man. My integrative method uses touch and massage as a form of art. I approach you as a body-mind-eros unity.

Body Flow Tantra Massage for men  is a deep full body experience which takes you on a sensual journey through your body and sexuality. Given in a flow motion with different rhythms and massage strokes. We work in nakedness and you are allowed to be who you are as an Eros sexual being.

(2 hours 80 euro).

 

Eros Tantra Massage for men is an in-depth experience on the wave of Eros where sexual energy and excitement are used to experience your manhood in connection with your heart and erogenous zones. We build the erotic sensation and spread it throughout your body to enhance your pleasure like an orgasmic, electrified event. It encompasses the Tao-Tantra genital and/or anal/prostate massage.

(2 hours 95 euro)

 

Eros Experience for male couples to upgrade and explore intimacy and sexuality within your relationship. Eros will be experienced both as sensory lustful pleasure as loving connection. We move together within a giver-receiver sphere where you both give and receive massage to each other. The giver massages the receiver together with me. This ero-tantric interplay opens up a different way of relational and intimate togetherness, which gives many men new incentives and possibilities.  It also can be seen as a simply pleasant way to offer each other a moment of loving and playfull pampering.

(2hours30min - 155 euro)

Eros Integration for men

Embodiment work for men who want to pay attention to their personal development or are in need for healing. Within this framework Eros is not only approached from the erotic perspective but from the multiple layers of your personality. Integration means that we do not see the physical, the mental-emotional, the behavioural, the bio-sexual energy as separate, but as a body-mind-eros unity. Deepening contact with your authentic self results in a more lasting connection with your social, intimate and relational environment. Eros embraces sexual desire and at the same time Eros is self-love from your true core and love for the other, love for the existential or universal.

 

Breathwork is a sustainable method that helps you to release stuck, fixed energy and to free yourself from hindering physical, mental, emotional and behavioral symptoms. We create movement in deeply rooted patterns with the aim of integrating your personality, identity or self. It opens you up so that there is literally more room for natural organic breathing. You feel reconnected to your body, your sexuality, life, your heart and your authenticity. During a breathing session you sit or lie on your back, you breathe from a conscious relaxed intention with no pause between the inhale and exhale. You follow this flow movement so that you gradually breathe more intensely from your diaphragm, which brings about a process of letting go or discharge of deep emotional and mental patterns. When you breathe through it, a moment of freedom and connection with yourself and the breath of life arises, you feel flow and peace in your body-mind. While you breathe, I expertly support you with verbal coaching, respectful touch, bodywork and specially designed movement techniques in a safe and consciously embodied way. 

(2 hours 70 euro)

 

Bodywork is a somatic-psycho-energetic approach. Through focusing and mindful physical awareness, attentive touch, deep manual techniques (myo-fascia tissue manipulation), specific movement methods, bio-energetics and conscious breathing we stimulate the body-mind-soul integration process. This is simultaneously accompanied by the processing of fixed physical-psychological structures and the rediscovery or awakening of the healthy aspects that are already present, focused on growth and your core-being. You gradually experience to be more attentively present in your embodied self, which results in an integrated personality.

(2 hours 70 euro)

Counceling & Therapy 

For gay, bisexual or openminded men who favor a therapeutic setting with a man. You can contact me for topics that are directly related to your sexual orientation or sexuality in general, but you can also rely on my counseling or therapy for any life theme.

My therapy model is interactive which means that I work with various therapeutic methods depending on your context, request for help and entrance (your personality). It may well be that we also work with body-mind-eros bodywork, but not necessarily. During the sessions, various disciplines fertilize each other to promote healing & empowerment. Attention is paid to your request for help (themes, patterns, problems or symptoms) that you cannot resolve with your own resiliance. At the same time, we can look at your desires and ambitions, new prospects or qualities that wish to develop. I always pay attention to both your personal individual and interpersonal (relational, systemic) context. 

During a first session we have an exploratory meeting in which you tell me what your theme is, I give you information about my working method and we can make any further practical agreements.
(90min 50 euro)

Booking Procedure

For Therapy, Bodywork and Breathwork:
Send me an email or whatsapp-chat and tell me which session you like to book, give me in short some extra information, why do you want this session?

For Eros Touch & Massages:

  • Send me in short your reason why you like to have this experience
  • A recent and decent picture
  • Mobile number

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Background & vision

Hello visitor, my name is David and I have been working as an Eros sexual body worker and tantric masseur since 2010. I am also a psychotherapist, based on an integral (holistic) vision with a strong focus on embodied consciousness. It was a very exciting journey for me to get to this point. I have my own background, patterns and trauma traces that had an influence on different areas in my life. My growth process through both therapeutic, body-mind oriented, spiritual and eros-tantric ways have opened me up to become a more free man in flesh, bone and relationships. I learned to reintegrate lost, fragmented aspects, to recognize and express my needs, to deepen my breathing, to accept my sensuality and sexuality, to experience pleasure and to let my orgasmic life energy flow ... Living from my core or authenticity is an ongoing process and I share this with others.  This path improved my social contacts and my sexual-relational skills. Connecting with the other from an integrative autonomic place within myself is essential. My own journey as a queer gay man is an interesting discovery which integrates life energy as a  Body-Mind-Eros unity and I invite you to explore yourself with my humble guidance and support.

Education

I have a basic training in Integrative Psychotherapy since 2005 and further specialized in various professional therapeutic and other disciplines such as  drama and movement therapy (Sesame method) /  different types of massages / body-mind oriented therapy / myofascia energetic release / somatic breath therapy / biodynamic breath and trauma release / vital & voice movement integration / family constellations / rituals & wheel of life work / sound therapy.

 

My Eros education is Tantra Massage and Sexuological Body-Mind-Eros work.

 

Currently, through ongoing training, I am deepening my knowledge of trauma therapy according to the model of Peter Levine (Somatic Experiencing), and Body-Mind therapy of Dirk Marivoet (Core Strokes - Postural Integration).  

 

Eros as lust/erotism and universal Love

Within our contemporary Western culture, the doors to sexuality, sexual and gender identity are open and accessible, yet many live with an intense struggle. Sometimes you cannot fully live your identity, sometimes you have too many restrictions and you are rigid with your body, your sex, your contacts. Sometimes there are no boundaries at all and we end up in excessive sexual behavior and we live a life from a sexual intoxication but without real connection, the anonymous sex world is omnipresent but is this a true form of sex experience, intimacy, contact and connection? Lust is a wonderful feeling but if you can only live from lust and never from connection then this is a form of fragmentation which is not the same as real sexual orgasmic freedom ...

 

Eros in Greek mythology is best known as the God of sexual lust, the longing for beauty and sensuality. The arrows of Cupido/Amor seduces us in the pleasurable game of falling in love and erotism, we project or internal needs and lusts onto the other through sexuality and many forms of behavior.

A much older and more unknown Greek myth about Eros speaks of the God of primordial love energy. In this principle we meet the most intrinsic power of universal love which is present in all that lives. From a psychological viewpoint we can say that if your needs are lovingly met as a baby, infant, child, teenager, adolescent, we become a person with a healthy ego pilot that allows your core being (self or soul) to shine and grow in order to fullfill your life purpose. We all know that developmental injuries always encompany us and trauma is part of existence. Some also say that this is an important part of the souls growth process. As reaction towards unmet needs and injuries we start to create defence mechanisms within our mind, psyche, body and energy and all this results in a body-mind character structure. As human beings we express our needs in a bio-energetic and sexual way so what we call universal love express itself through the many possible masks of the human drama. The journey towards authenticity or the core of our being is like an alchemistic proces which transforms the masks of our being and behavior, the symptoms of defence mechanisms, into the golden heart. The expression of love can be lustfull, erotic and orgastic, it can be dark and grotesk and it can be beautifull as falling in love but always there is the omnipotent bigger force of love calling us from the deeper layers of existence.